New to the anal game? Then the LELO Soraya beads are the perfect gift for your butt!
Anal play has increased in curiosity over the years, and for some, anal play is a very pleasurable and exciting part of their overall sexual experience. However, for some, exploring the anus not only seems like an uncomfortable area to explore but also brings up the worry of hygiene and a state of relaxation crucial for a seamless and enjoyable experience.
But what if you just try the tip? Who says that anal play has to involve full-on penetration? Well, it doesn't, and just exploring the anus and the external and internal sphincter muscles can be highly pleasurable. This area has a rich supply of blood and nerve endings, which means lots of good things happen to the body when stimulated.
Where are the external and internal sphincter muscles?
If you are curious about anal play but are worried about pain and discomfort, I recommend starting with a toy and exploring the entrance before going in for the entire show! And talking of a show, LELO has the perfect new anal beads that deserve a standing ovation.
Don't worry, anal beads sound scary, I know! But these are a great way to explore some anal foreplay and the perfect tool to help those new to the anal game. The LELO Soraya Beads is a one-of-a-kind sex toy, just like all their other devices, specifically designed for those just diving into anal play exploration. The unique design aims to arouse those sensitive nerve endings in and around the anus I mentioned.
LELO is known for its forward-thinking and, in my opinion, orgasmic mind-blowing technology, and this time, they have hit the ball or, shall I say, beads out of the park. This anal vibrator has a new innovative technology called Bow-Motion, inspired by the masterful movements of violin players. Using the powerful vibrations that resonate inside you, one bead after another after another. Are you salivating at the mouth yet?
As someone who is still hesitant about anal play and only engages in it once in a blue moon, I thought I would give the new Soraya Beads a test drive. Here is why I believe they are the ideal anal vibrator for beginners venturing into anal play.
The shape, size and feel.
LELO tops my list when it comes to sexual wellness products due to their exceptional quality. Their products are crafted from ultra-smooth premium silicone, and they consistently excel in ergonomic design. The Soraya Beads stand out for their less intimidating size and silky feel and the seamless join from one bead to another. This brings a layer of extra comfort, especially for beginners. The first bead on the toy is the perfect beginner size, and with plenty of lube, it slides in just like a glove!
Power and Vibrations
One element that has put me off anal toys over the years is the power and vibrations. Until the
Soraya Beads, I couldn't find a vibrator that felt right for me. They were either too intense at the tip of the beads or didn't flow through the toy in a gentle and soft manner—something which I prioritise in all the toys I seek out. However, the Soraya Bow Motion Technology has got this down to a T. Not only did the vibrations flow seamlessly, just like a bow on a violin, but it also didn't catch me by an awful surprise at the tip. FYI, setting number seven will blow your mind!
Lastly, if you are still unsure where to start when it comes to preparing yourself for anal play, follow the below tips for a safe and comfortable experience.
Top tips for beginners
Hygiene and Preparation
Engaging in anal sex isn't dirtier than engaging in other forms of sexual activity, and you don't have to do an anal douche if you don't want to. However, it is a good idea to trim nails and avoid sharp edges to prevent any injury and just generally keeping your butt area clean is recommended. No one likes a dirty butt hole!
Choosing the Right Lubricant and Protection
Using a high-quality lubricant is crucial for anal play. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not naturally lubricate, so using a generous amount of lubricant is essential to prevent discomfort and injury. Also, you can still contract STIs from anal sex, so still wear a condom!
Start Slow and Use Relaxation Techniques
Anal play should begin gradually and gently, especially for beginners. Start with gentle external stimulation and work to internal stimulation using fingers or anal toys (the LELO Soraya Bead *cough cough). I also highly recommend starting with relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing and mindfulness, to help ease tension and promote a more comfortable experience. If you are tense, it will make entering your anus much more difficult.
Choosing the Right Toys and Experimenting and Exploration
When incorporating sex toys into anal play, choose toys specifically designed for anal use. These toys typically have a flared base or handle to prevent them from getting lost inside the rectum. It basically works as a vacuum. Start with smaller-sized toys and gradually work your way up to larger ones as you become more comfortable and experienced. If using the LELO Soraya Beads, which I highly recommend for any beginner, you can start by exploring with the first bead and then work your way up to become more accustomed to the size and feel.
Experimentation and exploration are key to finding what brings you and your partner pleasure during anal play. Discover different techniques, movements, and positions to determine what feels best. Effective communication and feedback during experimentation will enhance the experience and strengthen the intimacy between partners.
Exploring anal play can be a rewarding and pleasurable aspect of one's sexual repertoire when approached with understanding, communication, and respect. Prioritise consent, educate yourself about anatomy and hygiene, use appropriate lubrication, start slowly, and always prioritise safety and well-being. By embracing open communication and practising safe, responsible play, individuals and couples can enhance their intimate experiences and discover new dimensions of pleasure.
